Scandal Dating Story of 100 Percent Identical Twin Girls
The psychology of dating has evolved over the past decade. When the television networks introduced a plural family living in a rural community in Utah, it opened the door for other “abnormal situations” to be freely discussed. People feel free to display their unique relationship issues that were often kept in secrete. Such is the case with Anna and Lucy Decinque. They are known as insight twins who share the love and bed of one man.
Four years ago, the girls met the love of their life, Ben Byrne. The girls are 30 year old biological twins, and Byrne is 32 years old. However, as if the situation was not odd enough, they feel that they must have the exact facade. They believe so much in their clone like appearance that they have spent more than $250,000 alone in plastic surgery. They wear the same clothes, fix their hair the same, and even wear the same makeup. The girls sleep in a king size bed with Byrne and live in their mother’s home. It is a strange set up by traditional standards, but psychologically what could this be doing to them?
RELATED ARTICLE: How to Know if You’re Dating a Player
First, monogamy is not what it used to be. Gone are the days when traditional marriage is valued as it once was. The idea of an exclusive romantic relationship just does not mean the same thing today. A plural marriage is defined by a man with more than one wife. When a wife has more than one man it is considered a polyamorous relationship. Though the Byrne-Decinque relationship would fall under polygamy, or plural marriage, it does not quite fit the standard profile for that relationship due to the circumstances. The desire to look 100 percent identical is bizarre, even for twins.
[/nextpage] [nextpage title=”…”]
Byrne is under strenuous demands in this situation, more so than he would be in a typical polygamous relationship. In this situation, he must ensure that he gives the same amount of attention to each girl. If he kisses Anna, he must also kiss Lucy. They share a large bed, so intimacy must also be done on a score keeping system. Everything he does must include the other one. There is no alone dates, no one-on-one time and no breaking away for rest and relaxation with one partner.
The girls state that Byrne understands their twin bond. The twin bond is nothing that is looked on lightly. Most twins feel that they must do everything together and have a psychic connection that they do not share with anyone else. Should this connection also include sharing a man? Psychology wise it may work for the short-term, but in the long term nature Byrne will not be able to keep up.
The nature of a man is to have intimacy and love, which he is definitely getting. However, the competitive nature of these girls, and the demands they place on their bodies and him, is just not feasible. Surprisingly, it has worked this long with no major issues. Common sense would dictate that at some point Byrne would feel closer to one or the other. This is the very reason why the girls have gone to so much expense to ensure that everything is the same so that he would love both equally.
Still, within the heart of Byrne, there must be one he favors over the other, if only in his heart. Try as they must, they cannot have the same personality. Though they may alter their bodies to look identical, they are hardwired a bit different.